Oh dear, that description of the overnight flight in the very back of the plane with the screaming kids made me a.) scared as hell b.) super grateful for all my flights that are not in the back and c.) as you said, made realise why I work so hard to “game the system” and/or just fork out my money to avoid all this.
Besides getting spoilt over time, for me quite frankly it’s also getting older. A horrid overnight flight with screaming kids is not that much different from a night out at the clubs and I don’t do that either much anymore.
Plus on top of this- travelling (for leisure) is my prime reason to live- not only talking about the airplane part here. So turning this part of the journey from something dreadful (Economy) into something one looks forward to (Business or First even) is totally worth it in my eyes.
I also think that unbeknownst to some of us lucky ones, Economy itself has gotten much worse even over the years. Adding my own experience here: It has been a few years now but before Covid, we traveled South America and could only get Economy seats on a weird 4 hour Emirates flight from Brazil to I think Argentina. We thought how bad could it be, EK used to be one of my favourites back in my Economy days on the long routes from Europe to Australia. How wrong we were! The flight was such an awful experience (seat, fellow travelers, food, service, everything) that even my significantly younger partner since then is in agreement with me that such a treatment is outright inhumane (he’s also always very grateful for all the upgrades I tend organise for him…). So yes, these experiences ground you but they also make you care/spend even more to avoid Why at all cost.