a bit older but also don't ski and and planning a White Christmas this year - criteria has to be that there will be snow so that rules out NY and UK - current thinking is the DolomitesWe are in our mid 50's and like a bit of pampering, but does not need to be 5 star. We do not ski.
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We landed in NYC on Christmas eve for our white Christmas. However, it was the hottest December in history, despite the previous 2 years it started snowing in October. Even without the snow, ice skating in central park, the Rockettes at Madison Square Garden, the windows at Sak's fifth avenue and the Christmas tree at Rockefeller were all things we had seen in movies and shows since we were little kids and was truly magical to see in real life. It is very expensive and very busy so don't expect too much pampering unless you are staying somewhere like St Regis or the Plaza.
One thing we found very strange was the sun coming up after 8am and going down by 4pm. A little unpleasant weather and there wasn't much of a day to waste, so have time up your sleeve as it is the norm rather than the exception.