A late introduction....

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Been here for a while and thought a formal introduction might be in order.

I'm not sure how to introduce myself. I'm a queenslander, having lived in a bit on the coloundra, cairns and brisbane. 6 months on Hawke's surfing scholarship after 4th year at uni during the early 1990s followed by an extended period doing post graduate studies in physics. During this time I also did laboratory demonstrations and tutorials, drove taxis and had 9 years in the Army Reserve, not to mention surfing safaris to both the north and south coasts from Brisbane - often on the same weekend. My university studies I also had brief stints working near Bunbury in Western Australia, in Jabiru and in Melbourne. I did a little bit of flying and did manage to keep up my Qantas Club membership during this time, being a member since about 1996.

All that came to an end when I moved to South Australia to take up my first full time work near OLP. Working for a company that was on a deal with AN I signed up with Global Rewards and managed to credit about 3 flights before they went belly up. During this time with the afternoon Kendall flight scheduled to arrive about 5 minutes after the afternoon QF flight left ADL for BNE, I was often doing low level flying OLP-ADL, bit of a kip in the car at the airport followed by the early flight to BNE. That gave me an interesting story about my first Adelaide pub experience. Certainly gave some insight into my grandfathers advice that they have a lot of churches because the need them. :shock: ;)

As an aside the other bit of advice from my grandfather gave me was - of your not in bed by midnight, just go home. I resembled that advice for a few years, making sure I was in bed by midnight so that I didn't have to go home. That was until I met my wife in the Roxby Downs Tavern one night. In fact that was also the night that resulted in a well taken lady sending me a message the next day that I had used the best pick up line she ever heard and she was very tempted. Shame I can't remember the pick up line due to having a few ginger beers.

To cut a long story to be slightly less long. I then moved to Sydney, back to Adelaide and I'm now working in Sydney and living in Adelaide. I managed to get some steady flying in during this time, usually up to home in Brisbane or around for conferences and work visits to sites. Unfortunately, I didn't get to fly to Maralinga, as a couple of my colleagues have done, but I did drive a hilux along the runway there. With my new work arrangements my flying has increased greatly, having doubled my lifetime QF SC in the last 11 months.

On a personal note I tend to be confrontational. A very good mate reckons this is my way of judging people with those who get offended and go a way not being worth my time and those who still talk to me being great people. Many may have already worked out that I can be sarcastic and abrasive, but I am rarely serious in such cases, and I never take anything personally. I feel very aware of my faults but I also don't really see the need to correct my faults - this is SWMBO lifes' work, correcting me. ;)

I do really need to get to a social event, but I'm having trouble balancing with the family. I've mentioned a couple of times that I'm missing the Anytime Access do because it is my first daughter's 10th birthday. I'm probably also hamstrung by SWMBO's fear of flying. This is a relatively new thing that is related to protecting the children, IMO. The fear makes talking about flying difficult and hence really impacts on my ability to plan flights to a social event around family activities.

Anyway, I've gone on too long already. I do really need to thank everyone for all the guidance and help that I have benefitted from and also apologise for failing to be more social.
 
Thanks for sharing :) I loved physics at school but sadly my current career as a medic doesn't include too much of this. I can identify with the difficulties of balancing family life with work and travel. I have yet to find the balance. Happy travels!
 
Welcome (belatedly) to AFF. :p

"Fear of Flying"? - I never knew how bad such a syndrome could be until arriving into Bali on our Honeymoon with scratches on my wrist and lots of soggy tissues from her tears.:shock: The only advice I have is patience; 19 years later SWMBO was just 15 SC's from re-qualifying SG in her own right (instead of PG). Now there's a moratorium on 388 flights since an engine disintegrated which is a PITA as we're already booked in 11J/K to SIN in June on one with a JASA. She'll still travel, but self help books and bibles get a beating when she is up in the air.
 
Thanks everyone for the kind words.

Really, thought that I should provide more background given my continued anti-social absences. The introductions area is also a great idea as I have probably mentioned most of this stuff over the years, but at least here it is consolidated.

Welcome (belatedly) to AFF. :p

"Fear of Flying"? - I never knew how bad such a syndrome could be until arriving into Bali on our Honeymoon with scratches on my wrist and lots of soggy tissues from here tears.:shock: The only advice I have is patience;

Yeah, it's rather hard, especially as she would have done a few Metro flights into and out of OLP before she met me. Those could be pretty intense at times, small confined cabin landing on an east/west runway where the prevailing winds are north/south. Hopefully, it is a sign that it is a temporary thing and there is help. But patience is the key for now.
 
Well this didn't last long.

It has been made clear that my participation in and use of AFF is considered to be worthless.

I'm not stupid enough to think all 6000 odd of my posts are must reads. But I have put in considerable time and effort to make a contribution to AFF as well as to be helpful if I can when I have experience. Of course, i also express my opinion at times but I feel that I'm not allowed to have an opinion. I feel there is ongoing approval of derogartory comments about me and my opinion without any attempt to protect my ability to express my opinion.

Needless to say find the whole situation and the communication that has been made to me to be extremely hurtful. I feel bullied, harassed and victimised by the on going situation. I'm not sure where that leaves me but I would say that my earlier introduction no longer applies. Instead I no longer feel the need to activiely contribute at this time.
 
Well this didn't last long.

It has been made clear that my participation in and use of AFF is considered to be worthless.

I'm not stupid enough to think all 6000 odd of my posts are must reads. But I have put in considerable time and effort to make a contribution to AFF as well as to be helpful if I can when I have experience. Of course, i also express my opinion at times but I feel that I'm not allowed to have an opinion. I feel there is ongoing approval of derogartory comments about me and my opinion without any attempt to protect my ability to express my opinion.

Needless to say find the whole situation and the communication that has been made to me to be extremely hurtful. I feel bullied, harassed and victimised by the on going situation. I'm not sure where that leaves me but I would say that my earlier introduction no longer applies. Instead I no longer feel the need to activiely contribute at this time.

Did I miss something?
 
It has been made clear that my participation in and use of AFF is considered to be worthless.

Not that my opinion carries much weight but I like to follow your posts. There are a few here who stick to their guns and back up their posts with facts. I have enjoyed my interaction with you on AFF

Needless to say find the whole situation and the communication that has been made to me to be extremely hurtful. I feel bullied, harassed and victimised by the on going situation. I'm not sure where that leaves me but I would say that my earlier introduction no longer applies. Instead I no longer feel the need to activiely contribute at this time.

I hope you reconsider. AFF needs varying views and opinions otherwise it will become boring.
 
There will be no more no more active participation! You are a valued member on this forum as far as I am concerned and would be quite pissed off if you left! Your posts can be pointed - but so can others (including mine) and if others dont like them, there's always flyertalk for them...

See you soon for a beer


munitalP
 
Not that my opinion carries much weight but I like to follow your posts. There are a few here who stick to their guns and back up their posts with facts. I have enjoyed my interaction with you on AFF



I hope you reconsider. AFF needs varying views and opinions otherwise it will become boring.

Ditto - what Tony said!

Whatever it is medhead - hope you stick around :)
 
Ditto- I find your views refreshing and (mostly) informed ;) I think you have much more than 6000 posts in you :)
 
I think I can say that I've reassessed my involvement based on the message that has been given.
 
I think I can say that I've reassessed my involvement based on the message that has been given.

By who... One of the fanbois? Surely you've blocked them by now?

I hope you'll stick around too even though we sometimes disagree, more often we agree and I still think your opinion is valued no matter who
agrees or disagrees... Agreed ;)
 
By who... One of the fanbois? Surely you've blocked them by now?

I hope you'll stick around too even though we sometimes disagree, more often we agree and I still think your opinion is valued no matter who
agrees or disagrees... Agreed ;)

It was a PM, I don't want to disclose any details. Aside= An important rule, I've said opinions in PM that I would hate to be disclosed /aside

Agreed... I think... ;)

I'll certainly keep reading, but that's about it.
 
I think I can say that I've reassessed my involvement based on the message that has been given.

Please pass the PM on to admin.

I am sick to death of keyboard warriors/internet bullies who think they can hide behind fake personas and try and bend people to their way of thinking, or failing that force people out of the equation all-together.

Don't let them win medhead, fwiw I usually :p enjoy reading your posts (life would be pretty boring if everyone agreed all the time).
 
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Would be a shame if you left, loved reading your posts and meeting you a while back during Sydney drinks. Hope to see you again!
 
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OK now I am p*ssed.
Just who am I going to bounce off now?
As I hope you are aware I have enjoyed our Interaction on this forum.I will very definitely miss your input and do hope you will forget what happened-you did post the details and I think I may very well have reacted the same-mrsdrron would tell you i am always likely to pick up my back and go home if I feel insulted.
I also dont get to many of the socials-despite the hail fellow well met attitude really quite shy underneath.
Suspect we have a lot in common.
I almost went into Physics-did go to Harry Messel International science school.Also I do fill in as a Nuclear Physician at times.Always a scientist on hand to satisfy the authorities though.
All the best.Enjoy life.
 
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