So...my booking as gotten a little more complex, because who needs to keep things simple
I booked direct with NZ for both my wide and I using my VFF# and her VFF#. I have VA gold, she is VA nothing. We are both Airpoints nothing (Jade?). All well with that, NZ recognises VA gold, applies benefits accordingly.
THEN
A friend who is an NZ Gold Elite had a short haul recognition upgrade he wasn't going to be able to use before expiry, so offered it to me
But in order to apply it I had to a) split the PNR so my wife is still on the original PNR and I am on a new PNR (for both inbound and out) and b) Have my NZ Airpoints # added to FQTS but leaving my VFF# as FQTV as I need the points to lock in full gold (on pilot).
This has allowed me to apply for the RU (I won't know if it will clear or not until closer to the flight, which is still a couple of weeks away), but has also meant that NZ no longer see me as a 'gold' as the status "read" from FQTS is my Airpoints Nothing. The RU is for the return leg (didn't see the point using it on a 767 over when it's a 773 back), so I don't want to change the FQTS and risk it breaking the RU application.
BUT
1) I assume flashing my VA Gold card with the BP at the NZ lounge in MEL will get me (and wife) access?
2) Can I leverage any other gold benefits without my gold as FQTS? If I check in with an agent can they manually priority tag bags, expresspath (Is that a benefit you get as VA gold on NZ?), priority boarding, etc?
3) For the above, given wife is now of different PNR - will anyone care if she 'tags along' with me on any benefits (e.g. expresspath - if applicable), boarding?
Coming back is less of an issue as either the RU clears and I am in Biz with associated benefits, or it doesn't and I swap back to VFF in FQTS.