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NO, really it's a redundant term because it excuses something no longer true. Get with the 20th century and maybe even the 21st.

We'll have to agree to disagree.

I (and I believe the vast majority) do not over analyze or over think these things.

It's a term that refers to a position - and it's not an issue.

It really isn't - I've worked with/under a lot of female chairs and all of them have been very happy to be referred to as Madam Chairman.

None of them consider the term sexist, none of them over analyze it, and tbh most would be offended if you changed the term on them. Of course if you want to refer to them as Madam Chair instead - then fine. But they would be very offended if you suggested they should be "Chairperson or Chairwoman".

The only people I have ever come across that make an issue out of it are the "politically correct elite". For the record - these are a group of people for whom I have very little respect.

It's not an issue with the people that matter (women who actually hold these positions). Besides - IME they're too busy getting on with the job to worry about political correctness.

PS. No disrespect to you or your personal views intended..... Just expressing my own.

And for the record - I am in the 21st Century.

Ie. It may have started as a gender-related term, but in modern times is now a simple positional term.
 
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The only people I have ever come across that make an issue out of it are the "politically correct elite". For the record - these are a group of people for whom I have very little respect.

When you use phrases like "politically correct elite" it jus reduces it to base sillyness. The word chair LITERALLY means a function but the extra "man" bit is a dated description of the "getlemen" who were the only people eligible to hold the role. Now days there are a lot of people who chair boards or committees who are not men. Therefore the second part if kinda redundant. So, you can call tem "Chairman" because you insist on reasserting an archaic description or you can simply refer to them as 'Chairs" and choose to add a suffix or not. The idea of "chairing" a committee or board has been around for centuries and exists entirely independently of the assumption that the person doing it is s dude, with a schwang.

It's not an issue with the people that matter (women who actually hold these positions). Besides - IME they're too busy getting on with the job to worry about political correctness.

That si somewhat true. BUt, to look at an abovios example, there are bugger all women on australian company borads. Have you ever looked at gender distribution of board memebers of majjor companies in Australia? Frankky, it's a fricken sausage party. I'm not suggesting that changing the terminology will fix everything but at the very least its a lot more realistic.

PS. No disrespect to you or your personal views intended..... Just expressing my own.

Same in reverse. We're not clashing here but i really think it helps to think about it in a different way.
 
Fair points - and conscious we've drifted OT.

Only last point I'd make is that there are lots of reasons that women currently make up a small percentage of director positions.

That said - times are changing and there are lots of successful women on boards and in Chairman positions.

IMHO there is no need to "do anything" about that.

The absolute worst, most counter-productive thing to do is introduce quotas.

All quotas do is result in women getting promotions on gender rather than merit - which typically results in 3 things:

1/ Some individual women getting promoted beyond their ability, buggering up the job, and ruining it for all other women because people judge the failure (accurately) on the fact that she should never have got the job in the first place;

2/ Men discount them as they have been "artificially" promoted rather than on merit;

3/ Women that are there on merit feel miffed, and dislike that others have been promoted on anything other than "merit".

A good example (whilst not a quota issue) of women who are not up to the job being a disservice to "women's advancement" is our current PM.

Unfortunately - when she got the job, so many women I know (from across the spectrum) celebrated it as a womens' achievement rather than just accepting the PM as a person.

Now she resultantly gets judged by these same women as "a failure", "setting back womens' achievements" etc.

Clearly she should not be judged on gender either positively or negatively.

Same goes for board appointments - but they shouldn't be 'made' on gender either.

I'll shut up now - and let our Australian based friends get us back on topic to a lounge that I won't have access to ;)
 
I really was giving you the benefit of the doubt but this really a load of sexist twaddle. The good news the mods have seen fit the split the thread so at least we're not OT any more.

OK, where to begin...

Only last point I'd make is that there are lots of reasons that women currently make up a small percentage of director positions.

That said - times are changing and there are lots of successful women on boards and in Chairman positions.

IMHO there is no need to "do anything" about that.

The absolute worst, most counter-productive thing to do is introduce quotas.

Broadly, i agree. The biggest single reason is simply time lag. For generations women found it harder and or impossible to get education, mortgages (my late mother needed a man to sign her mortgage papers when she bought her house in the 1970s, i mean, seriously, WTF?), Educational expectations (women being pushed towards the kind of prefessions and education that mark it much harder to climb the ladder). By and large these factors are gone or at least deminishing. In part that actually is due to affirmative acticion and in equal part it's just that we've wised up and realised we can't afford to waste half the talent pool in this country.

So, you will please to hear i'm not arguing for Quotas.... BUT ...

1/ Some individual women getting promoted beyond their ability, buggering up the job, and ruining it for all other women because people judge the failure (accurately) on the fact that she should never have got the job in the first place;

Have you never met a man in over his head? Jeebus, how many middle management roles are run by mates of mates of guys who played sport/ went to school with/ are drinking buddies with/ are best mates with of someone higher up the team and as result have been promoted beyond their abilities. Seriosuly, I reckon the number of douchebag dudes in middle management is at least roughly on par with the number of women who got promoted too soon because of gender issues. Oh, and no one says these guys are "ruining it for all other men because people judge the failure (accurately) on the fact that she should never have got the job in the first place". That's a massive double standard. There are old boys clubs everywhere full overpaid, undertalented, well connected nuff nuffs.

2/ Men discount them as they have been "artificially" promoted rather than on merit;

In a lot of cases this is not true and it's simply basic sexism at work. In those cases where it is true, and i'll concede they do exist, no one ever reminds themselves of all the over0connected, undertalented, and underqualified blokes who climb the tree because their connections have given them another, alternate, advantage.

3/ Women that are there on merit feel miffed, and dislike that others have been promoted on anything other than "merit".

And people don't complain about why some men were promoted over others? Wow, you must work in the only work place in the world where the probably of dud people being promoted is due entirely to the fact they are women and the only ones who complain about it are other women?

A good example (whilst not a quota issue) of women who are not up to the job being a disservice to "women's advancement" is our current PM.

Unfortunately - when she got the job, so many women I know (from across the spectrum) celebrated it as a womens' achievement rather than just accepting the PM as a person.

Now she resultantly gets judged by these same women as "a failure", "setting back womens' achievements" etc.

Clearly she should not be judged on gender either positively or negatively
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Ignoring the achievements (or lack there of) of the current PM. I think it's bloody awesome that that barrier has been broken down. I think it's bloody awesome that every 14 year old girl in Australia can decide she wants to be Prime Minister and actually believe it's possible and (embarassingly) for the first time in 100 years has an actual role model. Now, as you acknowledged, she didn't get the gig because she was a women. She got the gig (in stupid ALP factiional ways) because she was the next most senior minister, next in line, and she worked hard to ge there. Whether she stands or falls a PM is a totally different question to the fact she's a woman.

Same goes for board appointments - but they shouldn't be 'made' on gender either.

To go back to my original point. I'm not arguing for quotas. I would argue it's utterly stupid to exclude 50% of the talent pool for those roles as we have effectively done for a long time. But, most importantly, it's just dumb to insist on calling the person who Chairs a board a chair-man in those circumstances where they are obviously not or potentially might not be. It's reactionary sexist rubbish to insist otherwise.

The Chair of the board of *any* company can be reffered to as such without insisting on language that assumes they are a dude.

<rant off> :)
 
I am confused. The topic here is for an elitist ( restricted entry) lounge for those who are deemed to be " better" or more important to the airline. And we are having a debate about the sexist nature of the title!

How about the " non gender specific, elitist lounge"
 
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So, you will please to hear i'm not arguing for Quotas.... BUT ...

Have you never met a man in over his head?

Tons - WAY more than woman (it's a simple numbers game).

Jeebus, how many middle management roles are run by mates of mates of guys who played sport/ went to school with/ are drinking buddies with/ are best mates with of someone higher up the team and as result have been promoted beyond their abilities. Seriosuly, I reckon the number of douchebag dudes in middle management is at least roughly on par with the number of women who got promoted too soon because of gender issues. Oh, and no one says these guys are "ruining it for all other men because people judge the failure (accurately) on the fact that she should never have got the job in the first place". That's a massive double standard. There are old boys clubs everywhere full overpaid, undertalented, well connected nuff nuffs.

You're 100% right - but I was talking about quotas. There are "jobs for mates" everywhere (and the charge applies equally for women). There are people simply in "over their head" everywhere - guys and girls.... All very valid points which also apply in society and the workplace - and all equally apply to men and women.

I was isolating out the issue of quotas (which almost exclusively applies only to women's advancement).

Remember - we were talking about the lack of female representation on boards - I took up the issue of quotas - my argument still stands on the issue of quotas.

In a lot of cases this is not true and it's simply basic sexism at work. In those cases where it is true, and i'll concede they do exist, no one ever reminds themselves of all the over0connected, undertalented, and underqualified blokes who climb the tree because their connections have given them another, alternate, advantage.

Yep - sometimes it's basic sexism - and again, your "jobs for mates issue" is fair but also applies equally to women. But quotas do breed this resentment from the men, who in many cases are passed over (despite being more qualified) in favour of women simply to achieve Quotas.

Your points are fair - but my arguments are on the Quota issue and I have tried to isolate all of the other factors (such as you mention) which are not exclusive to men or women.


And people don't complain about why some men were promoted over others? Wow, you must work in the only work place in the world where the probably of dud people being promoted is due entirely to the fact they are women and the only ones who complain about it are other women?

Of course they do - and you and I both know it.

My point - again - is that Quotas create this dynamic (where it may or may not have existed before).


Ignoring the achievements (or lack there of) of the current PM. I think it's bloody awesome that that barrier has been broken down. I think it's bloody awesome that every 14 year old girl in Australia can decide she wants to be Prime Minister and actually believe it's possible and (embarassingly) for the first time in 100 years has an actual role model. Now, as you acknowledged, she didn't get the gig because she was a women. She got the gig (in stupid ALP factiional ways) because she was the next most senior minister, next in line, and she worked hard to ge there. Whether she stands or falls a PM is a totally different question to the fact she's a woman.
YEP - I agree 100% - especially with the final sentence.

But I guess I hang around different circles of females to you - because in 2010 - every single group of females I know were celebrating the "womens' achievement" of our first female PM. (Regardless of how she got there).
Now - these same women are all lamenting the fact that the person they over-celebrated has turned out to be a dud and they (not me) lament that it will be a negative achievement for womens' advancement.

I would be very surprised if you haven't heard the same from women (from across the political spectrum).

IMHO - she never should have, and never should be judged, celebrated etc as anything other than an individual. Gender should be irrevelant - I mean that's the goal of the Affirmative Action movement isn't it?? Everyone treated equally - gender should play no part..?? That's certainly my view.


To go back to my original point. I'm not arguing for quotas. I would argue it's utterly stupid to exclude 50% of the talent pool for those roles as we have effectively done for a long time. But, most importantly, it's just dumb to insist on calling the person who Chairs a board a chair-man in those circumstances where they are obviously not or potentially might not be. It's reactionary sexist rubbish to insist otherwise.

The Chair of the board of *any* company can be reffered to as such without insisting on language that assumes they are a dude.

<rant off> :)

Everything you've said supports and reinforces my opposition to Quotas.

People, regardless of gender, should be appointment SOLELY on merit. Anytime any other factor is used - it leads to the problems and issues demonstrated. Quotas are just as much a negative force / cause of issues as the examples you use.

The difference is that there isn't (as far as I'm aware) an official body/group/movement/ideology/political party that has an official manifesto calling for "jobs for mates", "promotions for dummies" etc.........

There is for Quotas.



And getting back to the "Chairman" debate - you feel strongly about the use of the letters "m-a-n" in the word - that it, by its inclusion, literally implies the position holder has a cough.

I don't see it that way, I don't break down the word like that (and nor do the rest of the community (including women) who have no issue with the term). We see it as the title of a position, no different to President, CEO, Baker, Farmer etc etc.

With the most utmost of respect - you're the one bringing "sexism" into the argument - the rest of us do not view the term "Chairman" as being gender-specific.

Stop breaking the word down - it's a proper noun.

PS. The passion behind my opposition is my personal religious opposition to political correctness - which I see this argument as being.

For the record - I have not met a single Female Chair who has objected to the term. That said - if I was to serve under a Chair (male or female) who elected to be addressed as "Chair" instead of "Chairman" then fine - who cares.
 
So if you're taking PC to the Nth degree, how do you explain the words mankind or human.

What about terms like "since the dawn of man"?

I don't really see "man" in certain contexts to be gender specific.

What's the big deal with saying "she's the chairman of the board".
 
I don't really have a problem with calling it whatever you like but the "Chairman's club" as a nod to it's historical origins - in the same way we have "royal socieites" because of some weird enorsement Queen Victoria gave in 1870 but in practical terms the royals have nothing to do with it.

This is just incorrect and all. A Royal endorsement is exactly that, a royal endorsement from the crown, regardless of who wears that crown. As such it has never been based on royal involvement in the endorsed group.

It is also an important endorsement in the modern day that is not just used willy nilly.


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So if you're taking PC to the Nth degree, how do you explain the words mankind or human.

What about terms like "since the dawn of man"?

Or, as I noted earlier in the thread, "person" for that matter. If people want to stamp this stuff out they really cannot use person!


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I think Chairpersons Lounge or Chair Lounge just sounds stupid.

I would go with something more like "The Executive Lounge" or "The Qantas Room" - given a vast proportion of people in there aren't actually Chairs of anything...
 
Or, as I noted earlier in the thread, "person" for that matter. If people want to stamp this stuff out they really cannot use person!


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Dammit Medhead!!

I never even noticed that one!!

You've ruined me for life ;)
 
Lets all get over it and just refer to it by it's correct title-the DYKWIA lounge.Covers all who would covet membership and not a hint of a sexist word.
 
I always find it amusing that in these debates about language, the ones who say things like "I don't see what the problem is", or "we've always said it this way so it's not sexist", or "I don't think we should use this new word because it sounds stupid" are usually men. (or women who readily agree because they don't want men thinking they are 'annoying')

Well of course you don't see what the problem is. You're a man!! By default you are already included! The only time you have to think about it, is when some 'annoying' (and presumably 'PC' - what an insult eh?!!) woman points it out.

God forbid we should ever change anything.

The excuse I hate hearing most from a workforce (usually as a resistant dig to change) is "we've always done it this way so let's keep doing it this way". That is often not appropriate at work (inhibits growth and improvements) and it's not appropriate in situations like this either.

This stuff does actually matter to a lot of women (and men), and rather than say "hey I don't give a **** so neither should you", perhaps it would be more productive to say "I'm really not sure why this matters to you but I acknowledge that it does and am willing to change if that would help make it better".

It's just about respect people, and there can never be too much of that going around.
 
Oh and I agree with above post. DYKWIA Lounge would sum it up nicely!
 
Given the exclusive and secretive nature of the chairperchild's lounge really it should be IDWYTKWIA rather than DYKWIA.


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I always find it amusing that in these debates about language, the ones who say things like "I don't see what the problem is", or "we've always said it this way so it's not sexist", or "I don't think we should use this new word because it sounds stupid" are usually men. (or women who readily agree because they don't want men thinking they are 'annoying')

Well of course you don't see what the problem is. You're a man!! By default you are already included! The only time you have to think about it, is when some 'annoying' (and presumably 'PC' - what an insult eh?!!) woman points it out.

God forbid we should ever change anything.

The excuse I hate hearing most from a workforce (usually as a resistant dig to change) is "we've always done it this way so let's keep doing it this way". That is often not appropriate at work (inhibits growth and improvements) and it's not appropriate in situations like this either.

This stuff does actually matter to a lot of women (and men), and rather than say "hey I don't give a **** so neither should you", perhaps it would be more productive to say "I'm really not sure why this matters to you but I acknowledge that it does and am willing to change if that would help make it better".

It's just about respect people, and there can never be too much of that going around.


Agreed 100%

And it applies equally the other way around - just because people (men and women) oppose your arguments for change - doesn't make them sexist, or cavemen or similar.

Tolerance and respect also involves acknowledging that you (as the one who is unhappy with the status quo) may be the one who is out of step.

My real underlying question to this topic - is simply why are you advocating change?

1/ Is it pure symbolism?

In a lot of cases advocates for these things are chasing tokenistic symbolism (otherwise lumped together with PC) - which is the source of a lot of opposition.



2/ Is it genuine offense to the apparent gender-favour of the particular terminology (as I understand is 777's perspective)?

Fair enough - but is it you who is out of step? Or is the term due for change?



3/ Is your real issue the argument that not enough women actually achieve these positions?

Relevant to this is my arguments above regarding Quotas.


IMHO - I'm yet to meet any female chairs that have an issue with it. And I think these highly successful women (who can take on the best of the men) would be highly offended by your suggestion that they "readily agree because they don't want men thinking they are 'annoying'".



I accept that there are people who this stuff matters to - but I personally believe it is up to the women who actually achieve these positions to make these changes if they truly are bothered by it.

Those who are on lower steps of the ladder...... when you're my Chairman - I'll address you however you request ;)
 
As a data point I am "The Chair" of several committees and subcommittees. Not in the least bit bothered if " chairman " were to be used
 
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IMHO - I'm yet to meet any female chairs that have an issue with it. >
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You should get out more!:)

And, adding a second data point to PF's above, I hold several such positions, and would never use the term "Chairman", either for myself or for a Chair of either gender.

Mind you, I thought that this argument had been done and dusted years ago, and that "Chair" had been accepted as common parlance.
Haven't had to debate it for a moment, in a long time.

Seems I should get out more, too!
Or into different circles. :)
 
I always find it amusing that in these debates about language, the ones who say things like "I don't see what the problem is", or "we've always said it this way so it's not sexist", or "I don't think we should use this new word because it sounds stupid" are usually men. (or women who readily agree because they don't want men thinking they are 'annoying')

The act that I think Chairperson is stupid and Chairs Lounge is equally stupid doesn't mean that I think Chairmans' Lounge is what should be used.
 
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