Actually, BAEC Golds
are given the same kind of treatment. Without much surprise, you can see how hardened some of the stalwarts on the FT BAEC board are in accepting this rule. (Just as much as many of the QF flyers here are great sticklers for upholding the reasons why QF are not quick to give away international upgrades, or why you can't get a difference refund if the fare drops after you buy it).
There are many stories of BAEC Golds who are a family of 3 - spouse and young child in tow - who have been turned away due to the rules (i.e. 1 guest only, and the young child probably wasn't young enough according to the rules). Stories along the lines of, "We've just come off a long flight and we only needed to quickly use the lounge shower to freshen ourselves and especially our child, but the dragon was very adament," are not unusual.
When BAEC Gold still had "open doors" (ATA for the QF familiar), it was always the Gold member only and no guest. Which means the business man on an EasyJet flight had no trouble, but the couple on the same flight had to either flip a coin or go without.
The BA dragons are notoriously strict for all of this. Some of them can be quite methodically draconian:
- You are required to produce your card if they want to see it. No card? Bad luck - no access. No, I don't care that your boarding pass shows your FQTV/FQTS info; it's a card for entry or bust.
- Are you sure you are a oneworld Emerald? Yes that looks like a green oval, but let me double check
- Even at T3, I've heard stories where QPNB or QPPS members had to work tooth and nail on the agent to convince them that they were eligible for access. They mustn't be very used to it, but still.
- Many of them reach back for the access manual just to double check you really are eligible to enter. Let's see.... which is the Qantas page.... <3 minutes later> oh here we are, let's see.... Platinum....Platinum.... oh right! OK you're a oneworld Emerald (du'h... that's what the green oval is for).
All in a days life. Many people believe the dragons must be this strict because there was a really bad culture before of people trying to blag entry to the lounge, or blag over their entitlement. I suppose the mid-level execs didn't like the precedent, so they decided to remove discretion and set a different one.
All in all, I still hope QF will restore access to the BA network in due course. There aren't many Terraces lounges left in the world at all. Frankly, I also don't buy the BA side of things (i.e. that QF has stopped payment; I think it's more BA sneakily shifted the goal posts and hoped that QF wouldn't look before they kept on kicking).