A close colleague of mine who lives maybe 40km from her parents as the crow flies. They are in Malaysia and she is in Singapore and also hasn't seen them for over a year as well. Although I will say there is a degree of risk aversion there (in terms of fear of getting stuck and having to do 2 x quarantine), if it were me I would have found a way. Also have Australian colleagues who haven't seen their parents/extended family in well over 12 months since their last visit to Australia (they hadn't been back for 6 months already when COVID hit) ..... again a high degree of risk aversion , I've been back twice since COVID began. Different folk have different circumstances (financial, work, etc) and different tolerance for risk.