RichardMEL
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I agree, we can’t tell people how they feel, But just because they felt threatened doesn’t mean they experienced a threat.
For sure, but at the time it's going on you do NOT know. People can be unpredictable, and in interactions like that most likely one is going to defer on the conservative side (and training may even be part of it).
Just last week I was on a delayed CRJ in the US. It had been delayed for an hour as was due to late inbound, and then we sat on the ground without real explanation for probably another 20 or so minutes prior to getting going (I suspect the crew were awaiting a landing slot at the destination).
Anyway anyone fmiliar with the beast that is a CRJ200 knows these things are cramped and unpleasan. I was in the exit row fortunately with nobody next to me. Across the aisle was a rather large guy, also with nobody next to him. Now this guy was gettin gmore and more annoyed.. muttering under his breath, and sometimes over his breath (ie: quite loud) swearing about how the flight was already delayed and #)@*#)@ airlines and all the rest that most on the plane were probably privately feeling tbh. The usual frustration you get with delays and not a lot of info. I have to say while I did not feel directly threatened, he was getting more and more frustrated and pisssed off I seriously was wondering if he would start.. something.
In that instance was there a threat? In the end there was not (we took off and he just looked grumpy for the rest of the flight) but as he was getting more and more annoyed and making more and louder noises of dissatisfaction.. honestly I did worry as to what may happen.
An examplke of a situation where I think others around this guy may have really felt threateneded even though he wound up being harmless....