dress code in international business/first lounge

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Short haul I can do smart casual. Long haul I'm more of a cotton track suit pants sneakers and t shirt guy. But they're clean and new. :)
 
I felt terribly over dressed in the PER QP a week or so back. My socks and Julius Marlows were consistently outdone by the sheer weight if Haviana's on display.
 
Have absolutely no issues with shorts, particularly in a hot climate city such as SIN. I was in the QF SIN lounge last week, arrived in shorts as I came from a day walking around the city - it's 35' aka Hot. Left the lounge in jeans, as I get cold on planes.

While I do think there is such a thing as too casual, at the end of day if you are clean and don't smell, who cares. What another person wears has no bearing on my use of the lounge.

People who have issues with others fashion choices IMO have 'issues'.
 
In my experiences to date, what others are wearing has yet to effect my use of the lounges. So its a non- issue for me.

I'll leave it to the lounge staff to decide what's appropriate.
 
If I am going to work I dress appropriately. I am going to a restaurant or a hotel lounge I dress appropriately. If I am going to bed I dress appropriately.

The fact that the F lounge is merely my hot chocolate or cognac stop before bed (on a long haul overnight) means that I dress appropriately there too (and thanks Qantas for getting rid of those hideous brown F PJs - never a good look in the lounge).
 
In truth though - what does it matter. Behaviour matters far more IMHO.

I agree. Airline lounges are not special and exclusive clubs IMHO. Anyone who invest enough money/points can enter so dress code should not be an issue.
The important thing is to behave with respect to the other passengers.
 
And what about dress code for infants in lounges and premium cabins - they are usually a bit on the sloppy side?
 
Can I ask how someone wearing shorts into an airport lounge impacts on another person's ability to enjoy the facilities?


I would much rather share a lounge with someone dressed casually but with impeccable manners, than someone dressed impeccably but with casual manners.
 
I know this argument has been hashed out ad nauseum over the years and I'm sure will continue to be discussed in the years to come.

So, rather than expound on why I feel one way or another, I would rather tell a story of what happened earlier this year when SWMBO and I were transiting though HK on the way to London.

We had arrived in HKG from SYD and made our way into The Wing. I had come straight from the office and was wearing a reasonably crumpled suit, with my wife in jeans and a Burberry jacket. However, there is no way I'm flying HKG to LHR in anything other than comfortable clothing. And that to me is shorts and a sweater. My wife likes her cotton tracksuit pants and sports jackets. And yes, we both wear Havaianas ;)

I've never had a problem with this and never had anyone complain.

So, after a relaxing shower in the Cabana, we were seated in the dining area finishing off a nice meal when a family were shown to the next table. All members of the family were well dressed, however it was clear the son and daughter were not comfortable in the relatively formal wear they had on, not to mention that the son's sports coat, while good quality, appeared 2 sizes too small.

Anyhow, I noticed that both parents were looking at us with rather annoyed expressions on their faces and made a few comments to their children about dressing appropriately and how people like us shouldn't be allowed in lounges.

Naturally, I ignored them as I am not a judgmental person myself nor do I care if someone doesn't like what I'm doing. However, as we were getting up to leave, I clearly heard the father say "well it's about time they left. People should really not be allowed to dress so cheaply in here"

I could help myself. I opened my wallet, pulled out my business card, leaned right in so I was over the table, held my left arm out holding my card and said "sir, allow me to introduce myself. Here is my card. Perhaps you would be interested to know that this watch I'm wearing probably cost more than every item of clothing you and your lovely family are wearing. So if you consider me cheap, I hate to think what your opinion of yourself is" I smiled, he gaped at me and actually took my card.

Take away from that story what you will :)
 
I know this argument has been hashed out ad nauseum over the years and I'm sure will continue to be discussed in the years to come.

So, rather than expound on why I feel one way or another, I would rather tell a story of what happened earlier this year when SWMBO and I were transiting though HK on the way to London.

We had arrived in HKG from SYD and made our way into The Wing. I had come straight from the office and was wearing a reasonably crumpled suit, with my wife in jeans and a Burberry jacket. However, there is no way I'm flying HKG to LHR in anything other than comfortable clothing. And that to me is shorts and a sweater. My wife likes her cotton tracksuit pants and sports jackets. And yes, we both wear Havaianas ;)

I've never had a problem with this and never had anyone complain.

So, after a relaxing shower in the Cabana, we were seated in the dining area finishing off a nice meal when a family were shown to the next table. All members of the family were well dressed, however it was clear the son and daughter were not comfortable in the relatively formal wear they had on, not to mention that the son's sports coat, while good quality, appeared 2 sizes too small.

Anyhow, I noticed that both parents were looking at us with rather annoyed expressions on their faces and made a few comments to their children about dressing appropriately and how people like us shouldn't be allowed in lounges.

Naturally, I ignored them as I am not a judgmental person myself nor do I care if someone doesn't like what I'm doing. However, as we were getting up to leave, I clearly heard the father say "well it's about time they left. People should really not be allowed to dress so cheaply in here"

I could help myself. I opened my wallet, pulled out my business card, leaned right in so I was over the table, held my left arm out holding my card and said "sir, allow me to introduce myself. Here is my card. Perhaps you would be interested to know that this watch I'm wearing probably cost more than every item of clothing you and your lovely family are wearing. So if you consider me cheap, I hate to think what your opinion of yourself is" I smiled, he gaped at me and actually took my card.

Take away from that story what you will :)


yeah, I've taken something out of that story
 
I know this argument has been hashed out ad nauseum over the years and I'm sure will continue to be discussed in the years to come.

So, rather than expound on why I feel one way or another, I would rather tell a story of what happened earlier this year when SWMBO and I were transiting though HK on the way to London.

We had arrived in HKG from SYD and made our way into The Wing. I had come straight from the office and was wearing a reasonably crumpled suit, with my wife in jeans and a Burberry jacket. However, there is no way I'm flying HKG to LHR in anything other than comfortable clothing. And that to me is shorts and a sweater. My wife likes her cotton tracksuit pants and sports jackets. And yes, we both wear Havaianas ;)

I've never had a problem with this and never had anyone complain.

So, after a relaxing shower in the Cabana, we were seated in the dining area finishing off a nice meal when a family were shown to the next table. All members of the family were well dressed, however it was clear the son and daughter were not comfortable in the relatively formal wear they had on, not to mention that the son's sports coat, while good quality, appeared 2 sizes too small.

Anyhow, I noticed that both parents were looking at us with rather annoyed expressions on their faces and made a few comments to their children about dressing appropriately and how people like us shouldn't be allowed in lounges.

Naturally, I ignored them as I am not a judgmental person myself nor do I care if someone doesn't like what I'm doing. However, as we were getting up to leave, I clearly heard the father say "well it's about time they left. People should really not be allowed to dress so cheaply in here"

I could help myself. I opened my wallet, pulled out my business card, leaned right in so I was over the table, held my left arm out holding my card and said "sir, allow me to introduce myself. Here is my card. Perhaps you would be interested to know that this watch I'm wearing probably cost more than every item of clothing you and your lovely family are wearing. So if you consider me cheap, I hate to think what your opinion of yourself is" I smiled, he gaped at me and actually took my card.

Take away from that story what you will :)

Some still live in the 70's where people used to put on with their finest clothes before going on long haul flights and wearing jeans & t-shirt would have caused a major disruption.

When airlines will bring bank the elegance and style of the 70's first class cabins, they will be able to impose a dress code at their lounges.
 
there are plenty of well to do tradies these days, and FIFO miners, likely not used to the dressing up for business that once dominated the elite fliers, dress standards are more relaxed these day, once good dress sense often meant success, these days there are plenty of people that don't have to dress up to be successful, so they take this attitude to lounges, personally doesn't worry me.
 
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And what about dress code for infants in lounges and premium cabins - they are usually a bit on the sloppy side?

Hmm ... my Little Miss normally has a shirt with sewn-in fairy wings and a frilly skirt. Perhaps leggings and a ribbon-style Baby Bjorn for her teddy to make it easier to carry. Possibly PJs for late night departures.
 
I took away this bit from the story

"I know this argument has been hashed out ad nauseum over the years and I'm sure will continue to be discussed in the years to come."
 
I'd rather not say what I took away from the story.

I do agree that good manners is the more important thing but I am not a fan of the dress style that looks like items have been dragged out of the clothes basket (dirty or clean) and thrown on. Casual is fine IMO if it makes for a more comfortable trip.
 
I know this argument has been hashed out ad nauseum over the years and I'm sure will continue to be discussed in the years to come.

So, rather than expound on why I feel one way or another, I would rather tell a story of what happened earlier this year when SWMBO and I were transiting though HK on the way to London.

We had arrived in HKG from SYD and made our way into The Wing. I had come straight from the office and was wearing a reasonably crumpled suit, with my wife in jeans and a Burberry jacket. However, there is no way I'm flying HKG to LHR in anything other than comfortable clothing. And that to me is shorts and a sweater. My wife likes her cotton tracksuit pants and sports jackets. And yes, we both wear Havaianas ;)

I've never had a problem with this and never had anyone complain.

So, after a relaxing shower in the Cabana, we were seated in the dining area finishing off a nice meal when a family were shown to the next table. All members of the family were well dressed, however it was clear the son and daughter were not comfortable in the relatively formal wear they had on, not to mention that the son's sports coat, while good quality, appeared 2 sizes too small.

Anyhow, I noticed that both parents were looking at us with rather annoyed expressions on their faces and made a few comments to their children about dressing appropriately and how people like us shouldn't be allowed in lounges.

Naturally, I ignored them as I am not a judgmental person myself nor do I care if someone doesn't like what I'm doing. However, as we were getting up to leave, I clearly heard the father say "well it's about time they left. People should really not be allowed to dress so cheaply in here"

I could help myself. I opened my wallet, pulled out my business card, leaned right in so I was over the table, held my left arm out holding my card and said "sir, allow me to introduce myself. Here is my card. Perhaps you would be interested to know that this watch I'm wearing probably cost more than every item of clothing you and your lovely family are wearing. So if you consider me cheap, I hate to think what your opinion of yourself is" I smiled, he gaped at me and actually took my card.

Take away from that story what you will :)


What's the watch?

A tourbillion perpetual perhaps ?
 
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