I have had occasion to reflect on my wife's and my experience and my reactions in the seconds and minutes after the event, whilst we have been holidaying in Europe. I have read all the comments and in reply can say that I only write to provide testament to what happened, to the interest or otherwise of others.
I understand the comments concerning how situations should be dealt with, but my experience was that passengers were initially oblivious to any instructions that may or may not have been given and were trying to escape a small explosion and then fire in the cabin.
My reality was that there was a perceived threat, firstly evidenced by shrieking of passengers who were charging up the aisle from forward of row 12 and almost instantaneously manifest in visible smoke and smell of burning. Anyone that has experienced a panicked or mob situation might understand the momentary hysteria that ensued. I had a choice to leave my seat and follow my wife or sit and hope for the best scenario. Was it a shoe-bomber scenario, deliberate lighting, accidental (as it turns out)? As everyone would know, fire and smoke in a confined space is incompatible with life and I think that is what passengers further back responded to, to which forward rows reacted to, not quite knowing what the threat was. It would not take a lot of flammable under-seat luggage to create a significant fire. As it turned out a fellow Aussie in 12 or 13 doused the fire. Crew would not have made it anywhere to that row, for passengers filling the aisles to escape the fire.
When I arrived at the slide, the crew were assisting pax down. I'm unsure who opened the door or deployed the slide and there was a throng of people behind me pushing to exit the aircraft.
At the bottom of the slide, I did for a time assist people in front of me that were less mobile and couldn't jump clear. From a personal safety point of view, should I have stopped to help? Probably not. Would I do it again? Probably. That's when you know for sure what you would do in a perceived crisis.
In summary, despite what most flyers would hope, the panic and noise of people shouting in different languages, didn't assist hearing any instructions to evacuate or otherwise from cabin or flight crew. Would I fly Ryanair again? Yes, I've flown previously without incident or delay and sometimes there are limited flight options in Europe to resort destinations on certain days, to avoid many many hours on trains or ferries (which also derail and sink).