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A. Setting expectations.
It is ok to say "The way you are behaving is not meeting my expectations".
Humans respond to operant conditioning, we are little removed from animals. The vast majority of us behave in very constrained boundaries. However, it is boundaries that are often lacking (for all ages). If you're in PE, J, F, or R, you can rightly expect a standard of service as you are party to a transaction that says "I have paid for service above a certain standard".
If all travellers are confident to state their expectations and the boundaries therein, then the staff will respond accordingly.
Confrontation never works in this scenario. My wife is the master of such phrases as:
"I was expecting so much more"
"Is this an isolated event? I was told that the service was excellent on this flight".
The former Defence Chief David Hurley famously said "The standard you walk past is the standard you accept".
For the bleeding obvious: It is up to the passengers in PE, J, F and R to set the standard.
It is ok to say "The way you are behaving is not meeting my expectations".
Humans respond to operant conditioning, we are little removed from animals. The vast majority of us behave in very constrained boundaries. However, it is boundaries that are often lacking (for all ages). If you're in PE, J, F, or R, you can rightly expect a standard of service as you are party to a transaction that says "I have paid for service above a certain standard".
If all travellers are confident to state their expectations and the boundaries therein, then the staff will respond accordingly.
Confrontation never works in this scenario. My wife is the master of such phrases as:
"I was expecting so much more"
"Is this an isolated event? I was told that the service was excellent on this flight".
The former Defence Chief David Hurley famously said "The standard you walk past is the standard you accept".
For the bleeding obvious: It is up to the passengers in PE, J, F and R to set the standard.