apparently Australia is a democracy ...yet the current leader of this democracy continues to reference his personal beliefs for his reason to not allow same sex marriage...doesn't sound very democratic to me...let the people of Australia decide...I've said my piece..enjoy your day
And that's how a democracy works. You elect a representative to voice an opinion that resonates with your's. The people elected not only Abbott but representatives in individual electorates that have resulted in the current government. Just because the current representatives don't represent your opinion doesn't mean they are not representing the majority's opinion. Whether Abbot references his personal beliefs or not, the people elected him as a representative based on his merit as a representative for the seat of Warringah. If you have a problem with his representation, take it up with the people of Warringah for electing an "idiot".
As or the US supreme judges, my understanding is that they're not making a new law but rather have interpreted laws in 13 states to be unconstitutional, and hence those states (and probably more importantly any other states looking at implementing similar laws) cannot outlaw same-sex marriage. Which would mean this interpretation of the constitution means as long as there's a legal right to marriage, same sex couples can get married. Correct me if I'm wrong but this means the judges did not create new law (as their powers do not let them to do so) but rather have interpreted the law that was created by the founding fathers of the USA that same sex marriage is legal. This of course means it can be changed with a referendum to amend the constitution at any time.