Your quote 'Nothing like spending 20k a year to be treated like a nobody' sounds like you expected attention, otherwise you would have been happy to be treated as a nobody and you would not have made the comment...
You received access to the PB queue as per your status entitlement. Also, once again, more than half the aircraft could have legal access to the PB queue explaining the 'equal' queue lengths.
A valid reason was provided why VA boarded both queues at the same time. Although it may not be optimal, where does it say in the T&C that VA cannot board both queues at the same time particularly if they believe they are running late? I personally find the best use of the PB queue is when I arrive late at the gate I get my BP scanned straight away.
As explained previously, the picture you provided proves absolutely nothing. Also, who exactly told you that PB was not being enforced?