The above (no I didn't see the pic) illustrates the peril and confusion of having different standards for different lounges.
Anyway I was sitting in the ADL QP(this moniker used on purpose) recently for a couple of hours. It was quite full prior to a number of departures on QF and JQ. I was in a little area not too far from the bar like a semi booth area with a couple of tables.
I sat in one corner, and this bunch of blokes came and took the other area, pulled some chairs up to make a group. In the end there were 5 or 6 of them. No issues.
They were drinking, and drinking, and talking as though they were in the qP - not yelling, but lound enough to be heard by most around the area (including some kids nearby). Every 2nd word was the F bomb.
Both credit and displeasure to the ADL QP staff who did come and refresh their drinks several times (table service fantastic to have, but clearly no sense of "have you had enough?" or perhaps even suggesting they may want to tone down the language etc). They went from beer and whatever to whisky and it went on and on. So much so I even heard one of them boast "We always get here early to 'slam it' before the flight"
Now they weren't offensive to anyone else (that I saw) or yelling or creating a big scene except for that they were a fair sized group for the area and many could hear the language.
It was no surprise to me when they finally left to catch the flight to Olympic Dam.
My point is that QF is worrying about dress codes and who has appropriate sandals or not, and not about the behavior of some of its guests? If the whole point of a dress code is to create a particular base level of guests in the lounge, you'd hope that they'd also want to have a respectful environment for all guests?
These guys were by the end borderline RSA worthy in my view. Again not over the top, but well on the way there. I'm no prude and swearing doesn't bother me, but there were kids around and stuff and the lounge was pretty full (and anyone who has been in the ADL QP know how big it is) so it was fairly busy, but options to move, specially for more than a solo traveller were limited until after a few flights left.
Now I know responses will say things like "you could have moved"(well probably, but why should I have had to?) or "What do you expect being near the bar?" (what's that to do with it?) or "Why didn't you complain to the staff/manager?" (It didn't bother me hugely and they weren't shouting at random passersby or anything like that and I was kind of interested to note how the staff would act) or even "Don't you have better things to worry about?" (probably
). It just struck me hearing this group (I was trying to mind my own business) again that the whole dress code thing seems far less important than what people do once in the lounge.
These comments are not about these blokes per se, apart from the language they were fine, but it's more my point about worrying about dress codes when I reckon the focus needs to be more on personal hygene (thankfully this is rarely an issue that I have seen
) and behavior.