Frustrating - and just not up to the standard expected of SQ. It shows a lack of lateral thinking and communication between the crew.Thanks Peasant - Yes the A350 crews seems to be "younger" and not sure of what to do. Two separate trips, had the "do not disturb" light on and both crew members were worried about me missing my book the cook meal. After waking me 3 times trying to serve me I reminded them of the do not disturb light
You'll also notice that on the B777 and A380, there will be a Chief Steward/ess (red) devoted to leading cabin service in F/R and another leading the J cabin. They are directly responsible for service within their cabin, so it's a key leadership role. The in-flight manager therefore takes on more of a managerial role overseeing the whole aircraft from tip to toe.
On the A350, there isn't a Chief Steward/ess leading the cabin: the in-flight manager is in charge of the cabin, supported by a more junior Leading Steward/ess. This means the in-flight manager actually has to work within the cabin, rather than taking that supervisory managerial role. To me, that makes a very significant difference to how service is led and executed.