As a safety professional I have so many problems with this I don't know where to start. Are you seriously advocating a secret, vow of silence workgroup? That might be nice when you get little perks of the job on the side (ignoring perceptions that staff get into J seats in front of customers). But frankly that sort of attitude leads to bad stuff. Bullying and coughisation in the work place, all the way to ignoring safety (OHS not flying safety) rules that eventually leads to someone getting killed. It is an insidous and dangerous culture to have in a workplace.
Yes and no.
If she had done something that was unsafe:
a) crew probably would of seen it and reported it. Part of the crew culture is that we don't mind being reported on when safety is involved. Qantas has a policy that encourages crew to report and everyone in the whole crew community learns with internal publications highlighting safety hazards through open reporting. Naturally in very rare and serious cases of safety breaches, then there can be consequences. It is not a no blame policy.
But there is a difference between ignoring flirting and upgrading passengers which are harmless to jeopardizing the safety of passengers and crew. Can that still have an effect on your experience with that airline. Absolutely - but it didn't put you at risk. It comes down to poor customer service.
b) the OP would of without hesitation reported it, if something serious (safety wise) had occurred. This clearly isn't the case as the concern was in regards to the attention given to another passenger.
You may think I'm going over the top. But I have seen coughisation in the military. I have almost been blown up in the workplace because of someone ignoring basic safety rules and doing what the "workgroup" has always done.
I understand what your saying, and I fully agree in your example. There should never be complacency in the workplace. But in this particular situation I do think your comparing apples with oranges.
It was flirting. Nothing more. Whilst we are safety professionals without a doubt, we are allowed and encouraged to interact with passengers. Did she interact too much... that's not for me to say (despite my username
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Sorry if this is a lecturing rant, that isn't my intention. I'm glad that you have a great workplace that gets perks. But I do also hope you are aware of the risks and don't let a bad culture develop.
No need to apologize at all. Qantas, despite that cough you read in the paper has a great safety culture. That wouldn't be the case if it wasn't taken seriously by crew.
I'm sure the same applies at Virgin.