something to think of is the increasing cost of your daughter as she grows. It’s not just the fees, it’s all the extras, even at public schools. Books, uniforms, excursions, sport, extra activities. We are not a musical family but for some reason when she was 6, Ms FM conceived a passion to learn to play the violin - we thought it was a fad, but for 12 years she had lessons and played it - I even grew to love her music (as much as someone who is tone deaf can). I would have hated to have had to say no to those lessons. 25 years ago they were $100 an hour and she didn’t have the expensive teacher that the “serious” kids went to.
If she gets into a sport or gym or a thousand other things the $ mount up.
We didn’t retire until we were sure the children related expenses were coming to an end. Well they never do, but at least they are totally discretionary now.
Then there are medical bills. Ms FM (she was the expensive one out of our 3!), shattered her knee cap playing basketball - 3 knee operations and $30,000 at least..... yes you can go public, if you enjoy seeing your child in pain and waiting....Then all her other auto immune problems and specialist bills by the dozen. You can get lucky - apart from having her adenoids out I don’t think Dr FM ever had a problem or Master FM but you don’t know what lies ahead.
Not saying don’t retire - I love retirement! But maybe a bit of caution with a young child - they can be very expensive......