I've never had the experience of flying in F, so I can't vouch for the service there. Although considering that you're paying an arm and a leg (sometimes about 16 times more than an economy passenger), you'd expect excellent service.
I used to work in retail, so I can sympathise with the people in this industry to some degree.
Having said that, I have very rarely experienced bad customer service from QF. And believe me, if I had, I'd be the first one to submit a complaint! (I complain and complement where it is due, 99.9% without fail.) And I've been a NB for my whole life until now (a still lowly PS). I've had 3 QF J flights in the last 12 months; 2 were domestic. All were excellent, although I will say the attendant call is a lost cause. I can't give a plausible explanation for that, but I couldn't care less. (OK sounds like I just found a 0.1%-er didn't I?)
Making a connection seems to go hand-in-hand with good service. Sometimes it doesn't work, but it never seems to induce rudeness. A smile, a story/yarn, finding a common complaint (the weather, it's too early in the morning), a complement......something. It even works on Bag Drop staff; the only thing they won't do is give you an up to J.
The best staff I tend to find are:
- FAs that work the early morning flights
- QantasLink staff
- NZ FAs; mostly the FAs only. Ground staff are never rude and usually helpful, but I wouldn't put them in this shortlist.
Sometimes I think some of us (both those who serve as well as those who are served) need to remember
The Paradoxical Commandments by K. M. Keith.