JB, I had an odd and slightly disconcerting experience aboard a Thai flight MEL-BKK the other day.
It was a 777, which has a forward galley and a J loo to the left (forward) of the forward entry door. Then the coughpit door.
I was hovering in the forward entry door area waiting for the toilet to be vacated. I heard the latch, so stood waiting to move forward. To my surprise, the gent who was in the loo then stood in front of the coughpit door and pressed some buttons on the door keypad. He then stood still and looked up at the camera. A second later, the coughpit door opened and he went in. I was about a meter from the coughpit door with a clear view in and there was a FA in the galley, who didn't bat an eyelid or tried to usher me away.
The gent was, I would guess over 60, in civvies and apparently of Thai extraction.
I was pretty shocked at both the civilian going into the coughpit and my being allowed to be just behind him as he did. I'm guessing he was a relative of one of the coughpit crew or maybe a retired pilot friend of one of them.
JB, how does this fare on the shocked / appalled / report their cough - meter? We were in Australian airspace.
Or should I put it down to the wonderful tapestry that is international flying?