Qantas has their own policies and is very clear in terms of specifically publishing them online prior to the purchase of the ticket, if that did not happen to you then you have a complaint had the booking been a phone one for instance, however if you choose to ignore the policy as advertised prior to purchase then wish to argue the toss post sale then I hardly think accusations of unfairness are applicable, I note you make no note of having heeded the policy advice online as part of the booking process but at the same time its not clear that you booked online either.
I tried to respond to this post before, and my response got mangled. So apologies, here goes again.
Yes, I booked online after reading in threads similar to this one that it was possible to have a more flexible approach after booking. Stupid me! So yes, it's my problem. But please read on.
You used the term "unfairness". I did not use that term. I did say that I was concerned about bad user design, and in trying to understand possible reasons for that bad user design I asked the question "Who benefits from this?"
And I think bad user design is likely to be perceived by consumers as "unfair". So in that sense I agree with your use of the word.
As for believing what's written on the Qantas website, why should I? Qantas doesn't believe what's written there. For example, on the website we are supposed to go into the office after two days but in the email that's sent out, the time is actually two weeks. Who to believe? It's a mess.
So far the response to my original post is that most posters think that what Qantas is doing is seriously not helpful; and a few posters have tried to defend.
I don't think what Qantas are doing is defensible (and I'm still waiting for the evidence of the "thai government policy" which QF customer care claims is the reason for the behaviour.
if there is such a government policy it would help make the cost of my mistake in booking online easier to bear, knowing that Qantas had to comply with the law in this way, unlike all other airlines operating out of BKK (including Jetstar).
I am still left with the feeling of being scammed, and rather than sitting with that feeling, I am pushing QF Customer Care to come back with evidence. Feeling scammed is another characteristic of bad user design. It does not mean that scamming has taken place, but it is a very unpleasant feeling.
For me it's been a fascinating journey into corporate culture. Qantas is supposed to be in the Customer Service business, so why is it that I can't get anyone to actually advocate a customer focus, and think through the high cost of bad design?