lovetravellingoz
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My kids are 3 years and one is 4 months old. Right now it is hard to control them but we are planning our trip to HK/China/Japan next 2 months. Let's see how it goes. If it goes well I may plan more travelling.
Good to hear.
With kids I suggest being a bit less rushed, and building in lots of breaks time where the kids can just be kids and play or chill in the room/ garden etc. When my kids were quite young a part of trip planning was to discover where any local playgrounds were. And where no playground with a bit of imagination you can invent one such as some local statues etc.
Perhaps make use of babbysitters so that the kids can just do little while mum and dad catch a show or doing something hectic that the kids would not like. (Though young kids are often happy with mum and dad)
If you go slow you can be surprised what kids can do (and converseley if you try and rush them what they will refuse to do!!!!!). ie My youngest daughter when 4 years old climbed Uluru mainly under her own steam. It took us about 3 times as long as everyone else, but it was still fun.
My wife is a very conservative type of person.
May I suggest making sure you build in aspects that your wife really enjoys and particularly like (even if you hate them!!!) ..whatever they may be....so that she relishes future trips. Perhaps you mind the kids while she has a massage/beauty treatment, goes shopping, goes for a jog etc. Or even just time by the pool/ in a garden where she can actually read a book for half an hour rather than watch "John & Betty".
I detest shopping but my wife and 3 daughters all liked to include some shopping stints, browsing through markets etc.