That's not what really happened though is it? What really happened was that you said you should be able to do as you like with your points and that the nanny state of Australia and the nanny state of Australia's carrier were stopping you from doing that....
You made me go back and look at my comment and I think you misquoted me!!
I said: "... It is pretty clear that they are trying to prohibit is the selling of points (which is a different discussion - why can't I sell points? They do.) "
- Here I am just saying that we could have a separate chat about selling points and whether it would be a good thing or not... this is not my main argument
Then I said: "...If it was just a case of gifting points - who cares who gets them? Seriously? Step mum , step dad, sister in law.... just arbitrary in my opinion. I transfer my points to my cousin, he transfer them to his cousin..... ultimately my points end up in the account of someone not related.... but we didn't break the rules.
But I suppose it really isn't surprising.... the flag carrier of the nanny state has nanny state policies.... hand fits the glove."
- Here the sentiment I am trying to get across is that Qantas' rules seem a bit onerous, perhaps the most onerous, and make a throw away comment that its a bit nanny-state like.... the assumption being that the reader will understand that Australia is viewed by many (incl people who live here) as a nanny state with all sorts of stupid rules and regulations... tongue-in-cheek for sure, but there is a point.
But for the sake of absolute clarity I will summarise my stance on the issue:
1) I understand that the airline prohibits the sale of points as it undercuts their revenue. I am not saying that I should be able to sell my points. But I do think that there is room for a debate on the issue, because the day Qantas changed them from a "loyalty reward" to a "commodity for sale", it enters a grey area.
2) I do have the opinion that I should be able to gift my points to whomever I like (not sell). I would even be happy if there were some limitations in place, for example, if non-family members were restricted to being on the same booking as me i.e. I can use my points to travel with my friend/boyfriend/girlfriend/colleague etc. I just think the current list of "eligible family members" seems a bit restrictive. Last year I was travelling back from a work thing with my boss (we are not related), yet we were on the same PNR. He was feeling generous and went to request an upgrade BNE-MEL at the Qantas Club. We were declined because we were not related... was kind of silly, in my opinion.