OMG I've been round and round with Qantas and AA over this for my sister in law since October last year. Its a freakin joke.
We leave this Friday for a round trip - returning in 2 weeks.
I booked flights back in October for her through the AA website as they were much cheaper than booking the same flights with Qantas.
SYD-LAX-MCO-LAX-SYD with the first three legs being AA and the 4th leg LAX-SYD on the A380 with Qantas.
I have been ringing them and chasing them since October about that seat map. They cannot access it, it's restricted. American Airlines can't access it, it's restricted. I've rang both of them countless times.
I just got off the phone with Qantas for about the 50th time (exaggeration, but I've called a lot!) since October and they've told me that the airport has control over the seat map and the only place I can do seat selection is the airport. I can't even do it T-80 out from the flight!
AA and Qantas are supposed to have a joint venture, I would have expected this to be relatively seamless.....
I've tried Royal Jordanian Airlines, the booking cannot be found
I've tried British Airways and I get through to choose your seat and then in redirects to the AA Manage my Booking so no go there.
I booked with Qantas (using points) the same AA flights and had no trouble getting the AA PNR and doing seat selection for the AA flights. And because I booked with Qantas I can do my seat selection so the seat map is "available".
Why on earth is it so hard for it to work the other way (purchasing through AA and getting a seat on Qantas)???
She's got a child in his early teens who has had to book as an adult so she's obviously worried they will be seated separately and she'd like to sit next to him. And given we are both travilling solo with 6 kids (3 kids each) we'd like to sit together as well.
I'm so cranky about all of it. I'm so glad it worked out for you though!!! That amazing!