.... I want to sit upright. I am comfortable upright. I am extremely uncomfortable in those fixed recline seats. My body feels suspended and I feel I am not in control.
I do not quite understand people's perception of recline and how it helps them......
JohnK
You are free to do as you please.
Not one word from me or anyone else.
It is a matter of personal choice, not tolerance as such.
Equally personal is the decision of others to recline when they feel they have a need to do - within the clear boundaries of crew instructions.
It's only when some do-gooders wishes to extrapolate their positions onto others - equating someone's need to recline / sleep - as allowed by the airlines and practiced by thousands of travellers every single day - with "disrespect" then we start to have an issue to debate.
The recliners already show respect by not doing so at mealtimes. This is not often acknowledged by the anti-recline brigade.
It is refreshing to have this discussion away from the DOM routes where as a personal view, I do not need to recline / rest at all.
I acknowledge, however, that some does have that need and I do not question their need or rights to do so.
Now, as you stated, you could be the same for the SYD-LAX route as I am on a SYD-MEL one. That is entirely a matter for you to choose / decide, really.
But, I'd suggest we do not mock or label the recliners - outside of mealtimes / takeoff & landing - as showing disrespect or "not giving due considerations".
That's a hackneyed response, IMHO.
Only 24 hrs ago, my CC was drained of $4,000 as I opted to have a J seat as opposed to a whY one.
The opposite applies: once you consciously choose to place your gluteus maximus on a Y seat with a Y pitch, it remains your unconstrained choice to accept its accompanying deprivations.
In that case, please do not yell "no respect" when the person in front of you need some shut-eye by reclining when trays are up and lights are dimmed, esp. on a 14-hr flight.