I appreciate recognition when the FA
isn't either:
* on boarding, simply looking at my boarding pass which has my name and status on it, so they are effectvely reading off a cue card (nice welcome but anyone with any status would get "welcome back");
* standing in front of my seat, peering at a list of names and seat numbers, (pause) finds me on the list, and says "Hello Mr Roo ..."
Much better when they at least look up the name before they move away from the previous pax, or, as some manage to do, remember 3 names or so in a row.
I must admit that when the small talk comes, I'm inclined to be ungracious and say "Can I just get a G&T, please?"