...when they got to our order we only got the vegetarian option.... Thank god for five hours in the Virgin lounge or I would have starved.
...Asked for a tea post meal … not even a biscuit offered.
So, while I don't want to take away from the displeasure about the poor service which you received from the CM on one of your flights, there are two general points I would like to make for posterity (/other readers) here (as I have had Qantas frequent flyers raise similar issues with me, after they have tried Virgin - as they are use to the Qantas way of doing business class).
Virgin F&B service is very different to Qantas, IME in Business Class on Virgin - there is a base line offer, which everyone gets, then there are all sorts of additions available
if you ask. (Plus the CM is free to tailor their approach above the base line at their whim, which in my opinion makes the service a whole lot less robotic/formal on Virgin, and normally gives it a different flare to Qantas.)
So, first point, hot drinks after the meal are not part of the base offer on Virgin (as in, it won't be proactively offered to you), but tea and coffee are always available
if you ask, as too are biscuits,
if you ask. Qantas will proactively offer hot drinks after the meal, and put a small biscuit on the side when serving it... but then that's it, you have reached the limit of Qantas F&B service. (Virgin can give you both of these things,
if you ask for both.)
Point two at Virgin is - there are 2 more menus to eat from, if you remain hungry or don't like what the base line F&B offer is on your flight.
If you ask, you can buy from the economy menu (unfortunately not free any more). Plus, there is an array of shelf-stable snacks available in the Business Pantry (which are free)
if you ask.... So, if you are a Qantas flyer and would like some chocolate after your Virgin meal, while it is not presented on your tray with the main meal - it is available,
if you ask.
Like Oliver Twist, Qantas has educated their passengers
not to ask for more, as they don't have "more", Qantas present or offer everything they have as their base line service. Whereas Virgin has loads more F&B available for Business Class passengers, beyond their base line tray service,
if they ask for it... There are simply too many options for every CM to have time to offer them to every passenger proactively- but let the CM know you are still hungry, or ask them for something savoury to eat, enquire about something sweet if that's your fancy, find out if there are any pies left to buy from the economy menu.... and then you get a whole lot more than you can on Qantas.