So it really is a lottery on VA lately. Overall, the service was pretty good and I can't complain.
I'm sort of agreeing with this. (I say sort of as I've only taken just over 1/2 dozen J flights now).
The discrepancies that I've experienced are:
1) sometimes offered a paper, sometimes not (in fact once the paper was waiting for us on the armrests along with the earphones).
2) more often not offered a mocktail (only had one), but always offered a choice of water or juice pre-taxi.
3) once the Galaxy was already waiting in the seat pocket which was nice as once the seat belt sign was off, we could help ourselves rather than wait for them to get it out of the bags, power them up, find the earphones etc etc.
4) once not offered a bread roll (either of us) but when I asked, they did have them (not sure if they short quantity and decided to save them for those who asked)
5) of course the running out of choices has happened on most flights, but not always to me.
6) one flight the J rope was not put up and the crew allowed Y to use the J toilet. It was a 700 so I wasn't sure if this was standard for a 700 or if they perhaps had a toilet out of action down the back, but no announcement was made about the front toilet being J only like they usually do.
I did notice on one flight, the crew pulled the curtain up front to the galley, but as I was in 1C I could see through the gap and they were helping themselves to the spare J meals. Not sure if this is acceptable practice as it beats throwing them out, but it could lead to choices being "unavailable" to the paying pax, simply because the crew want them.