Honestly these days after flying as much as I do, I try to limit time spent in airports to the absolute bare minimum, I used to be like some lounge lizards on here but no more! No time and better places to be for me.
Having said that long haul stop overs - a quick shower and a nibble make long haul business travel just that little bit more bearable. Apart from stopovers though quite often I don't even go to the lounge anymore unless whoever I'm travelling with desperately feels the need to go!
The food is nice but honestly I go to amazing restaurants and would much rather be there than in an airport
Haven't read the whole thread, but I agree with pauly7. I am also in that jaded club where so much travel just makes it survival, not particularly enjoyable.
"Free" food is no attraction for me - I agree that there are often (not always) better non-lounge options. But each to their own... My travel is usually extended long-haul, so I am getting offered food onboard or in lounges every three or so hours - I now live in an almost never-ending state of non-hungriness.
As an example of my behaviours - my usual exit from Australia is BNE domestic to Sydney, then out. So in Brisbane I don't even bother with the lounge and buy Pho from that small vietnamese outlet in the food court (it is not great Vietnamese but when never hungry and living in eternal jetlag, that spicy soup hits a spot), then when I get to Sydney I pop into the Flounge for a glass of champas and Eggs Benny usually, but if the stopover is more than an hour, I drift over to the Business lounge where I can pour my own oversize bourbons.
I coulnd't give a rat's ar.e about appearances in relation to lounges. The chance for a more secure area (less chance of theft) and maybe some internet is the main reason I use them over the rest of the planet.
Do I understand people who actually pay etc to get into a lounge? Absolutely! If you are an infrequent traveller it is probably a lot more fun and makes a special trip feel even better.
I can still remember my first lounge entrance, and it felt good. Actually, sorry, I cannot remember, but I am sure it was fun!!
I do remember my first ever J class flight - it was BNE-CNS on a 747 - it was a staff travel job as my wife worked with QF back then
Last comment, as I move mainly in South America, I see things that makes me really get what the Op is saying. The smaller lounges here are cough with a capital C. I was in one a few days ago that offered coke from a big self-pour bottle, water the same, a single tray of the driest sandwiches with the thinnest ham I have ever seen (and I live in shiiteholes). Not a hint of liquor, and I dont recall they even had coffee. The internet worked intermittently for emails only. But people were queuing up to use priority pass and pay for friends also!!?? But the people all looked like rank amateur DYKWIA types....
Mind you I was in there too
But that was ONLY because I really needed to connect to the net...