Yeah AMEX is really quick with the points unlike the other cards I hold - you pretty much get credited points right after you spend.
As for the referral points, like someone else on here mentioned, I managed to get mine before I even hit the $1,000 spend.
Doesn't look like I am getting my 120K then - spent close to $2000 on Thursday and Friday - and I don't even have the points for the individual spends yet.
FARK.