Actually AFAIK, the arrivals access was for using the lounge on arrival, not waiting for someone to arrive. You still needed to be traveling to use it..
I don't disagree. I said as much in my first post, but I was implying that the staff decision to deny access was based on no logic.
Let's look at it ...
1) if I wanted, in about another 45 min, I could have used arrivals access, perfectly legitimately, for not one but two people and we could have been there until the lounge closed, drinking and eating as much as RSA would allow; or
2) if I wanted, I could have gone and found 3 of the biggest groghead looking blokes in a VA gate lounge and guested them in as well as myself, perfectly legitimately and they could have possibly cleaned out the drinks fridge and made an absolute PITA of themselves.
Both would have seen them considerably worse off but no, I tell them the facts, I made a mistake, I'm VA plat, my +1 is flying in shortly, I only want to read a newspaper, she is flying J ... and what do they do. They tell me to go away. They do not try to validate my story (which they could have with a few strokes of a keyboard) nor do they offer a VA frequent flyer small but noticeable respect. A fair bit of bullcrap has been written in posts about me being a known culprit of pushing the boundaries with VA, but that is uneducated or biased drivel. VAs offering is simply not worth pushing the boundaries over, however when they fail to deliver on their undertakings, I'll certainly gripe about it. The reality is they didn't even pick up my plat card to check my bona fides, or how often I fly with them or to see if my story was true. It was just a flat no way, go away.
That was never the attitude with VA previously, but it's now par for course. That is why I posted this experience. Not to be belittled over it and told to buy my wife a phone or that my name is blacklisted by VA. That's just imbecilic nonsense. It was to tender more documented evidence that the VA of old has well and truly bolted. Like it or not!