It is cough when it doesn't go to plan but unfortunately it could have been handled better on the day... I would have been on the phone to someone in QF Australia and seeing what can be done to get me back into J... Not sure what options you had available to wait for another J seat maybe 24 delay might have been out of the question.
Well the OP had already indicated that they were offered standby J seats on the 1230AM (so say 17-18 hours post arrival) redeye flight with no guarantees to get those seats. Who is going to wait around LAX or the LA area (even without a 1 year old) for that long just at the chance of a J seat? You might as well hop the next offered flight and sleep in a real MY bed that night (specially if you had plans in NY then or the next day).
I find the very emotive words being bandied about (eg: "appalling" "disgusting" etc) to be in contrast to the actual experience related. Were they stranded for days without food or water? No. Were they denied ANY options in a timely manner to reach their destination? No. Were they not offered alternatives? No. Were staff *deliberately* rude, mean and unhelpful to them? Doesn't seem like it. Were they dragged off a plane by the cops and injured? Hell No.
I mean some perspective I think is needed.
I'm NOT defending QF or AA here, but trying to be realistic about the situation (as related) and what happened.
No question, the apparent screw up in the backroom on the reticketing to AA (ie being sent back and foward) was terrible, made that much worse being tired with a no doubt overtired and grizzly toddler in tow. Absolutely no question. These things happen from time to time. Would I complain to QF? yes absolutely. This is out of character specially for a generally well run operation at LAX where they specifically have a team for OW connections. I've had excellent, proactive, service from this team when a massively delayed AA flight got me into LAX resulting in a tight connection to QF94 to MEL and agent met myself and another pax off the bus from remote termoinal to escort us to the TBIT connector and had BP's and everything ready just in case. Could not fault this service in any way. While I get that others seem to have issues with LAX counter service by QF agents (probably contracted out) I'm sure it's still not the norm.
BUT that aside....
the usual protections were provided - an onward flight to their destination in a (seemingly) timely manner to get them there. Not in J I know, but you try getting X pax at the last minute onto already full flights? It would be unrealistic to expect instant reaccom into J as much as we'd all like that. Grounds for address by QF absolutely, but "disgusting" and "appalling" ? It no doubt FELT disgusting crammed into those AA Y seats for over 5 hours - over tired, stressed and with the poor youngster.... I have no doubt... but I still think there's perspective required. It's not clear how late off schedule they wound up in NYC from the OP's posts that I can see, but it seems they got in probably within, let's say, 3 hours of the original schedule which is probably pretty good.
My reading of events are the main issues to complain about are:
- the stuff up with the re-ticketing/moving to AA flights with the back and forward - very inconvenient
- downgrade to J on the sector due to the cancel
yes, QF follow up should address these and follow up appropriately. I have no problem with that and if they're not playing ball that is very disappointing.. Absolutely you'd think an automatic points refund would have happened (I know UA's systems used to at least so probably still do, provide for a downgrade and so on).
One wonders how long it is reasonable to wait for QF Customer Care to follow up.. that's another issue also potentially.
Poor handling at LAX absolutely. Cancel is poor, but it happens.
Sure, I wasn't there so who am I to comment on what's "disgusting" and "appalling" right? Sure.... I just feel we need some perspective among the outrage