I like to spend my saturdays out on the water or a picnic/bbq with friends and not flying to some other city for a few hours to have some free drinks in an airport lounge. I hate airports at the best of times, let alone when I dont need to be there. The way you guys talk about planning these things and the ensuing excitement leads me to believe its the highlight of your very existence and what you call condescending, I call honesty. I suppose every "hobby" has some element of irrationality to it, so looking at it from that point of view, its perhaps not so bad. I suppose.
as for your "NO" comment, your absolutely right. I dont fly to another city to meet up with people ive met a few times, I dont price match a JQ fare and go through the hassle of taking an international flight domestically, just so that my new AFF BFF can comp me a visit into the F lounge. If that IYO is normal behaviour, so be it, but to me its certifiably crazy and like i said, id be embarrassed to admit to engaging in such questionable behaviour.