rogerkambah
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I’m pretty sure when I turn 91 then I wouldn’t want to be brought back
But you've lived hard. (runs)
I’m pretty sure when I turn 91 then I wouldn’t want to be brought back
Yes. Understand. But in a flash it can all go to carp. Mum was very healthy until she was 85. I took her overseas with me when she was 82. Then at 86 had her first stroke completely out of the blue. She recovered kind of from that then had to go to a nursing home. I loathed the place. She was there for 18 months and then died an awful death after a stroke even though on warfarin. I am a visual person and am still a bit haunted by those last 10 days. I plan on organising things when I see fit.It depends on your health.I had a 93 year old patient who needed an eye kept on a few problems but physically she was pretty good.
Used to save up her pension then go to BNE and take a flight to wherever she could afford for the fare and 3-4 nights accomadation.
Used to do that 3-4 times a year.She enjoyed life and made new friends.
Thanks, yes I am feeling a tad guilty about the cost we've inflicted on our health fund, though there was nothing we could have done about it, as all the operations were necessary and fairly urgent.Gee Renato1 I used to be embarrassed that I had cost my Private Health Fund a bit over $20,000 in 1994 for my heart operation.
I go to a hydrotherapy pool 5 days a week at 5.30 am and mostly walk in it for between an hour to an hour and a half.
You keep saying that. We obviously see life differently. Even though I may sound negative I'd never give up. I'd want to hang on to every breath of life.I’m pretty sure when I turn 91 then I wouldn’t want to be brought back
Nah. Not if you see that. I saw mum having to do that. I’m not going there.You keep saying that. We obviously see life differently. Even though I may sound negative I'd never give up. I'd want to hang on to every breath of life.
At 91 you would have only had your specialist geriatrician for 6 years (in Sydney).
It is true it gets lonely in those years 90 to 100 as most of your school chums and friends are gone.
My mother is 95 and didn't ever manage to get into the technology age. She doesn't have an iPad or computer or the internet. She has arthritis in the her fingers anyway. She keeps busy but it is lonely when most of her friends and siblings have already gone. She watches sport on TV between frequent cat naps. It takes her a long time to do things as she needs to sit down often. She is also worried about falling and so she doesn't garden anymore. She is generally happy but I don't think she is frightened of dying. She sees it as a natural part of life and accepts that her body is wearing out. I know she didn't expect to live this long at all.But one can still watch The Punisher or Star Trek or whatever on TV, and muck around chatting on hobby discussion sites on the internet, or comment on political sites, or chat with other ancients of Facebook - life is different nowadays when all one's friends pass away.
Regards,
Renato
My mother is 95 and didn't ever manage to get into the technology age. She doesn't have an iPad or computer or the internet. She has arthritis in the her fingers anyway. She keeps busy but it is lonely when most of her friends and siblings have already gone. She watches sport on TV between frequent cat naps. It takes her a long time to do things as she needs to sit down often. She is also worried about falling and so she doesn't garden anymore. She is generally happy but I don't think she is frightened of dying. She sees it as a natural part of life and accepts that her body is wearing out. I know she didn't expect to live this long at all.
She sounds like she is in not too bad a place, with you and your family around.My mother is 95 and didn't ever manage to get into the technology age. She doesn't have an iPad or computer or the internet. She has arthritis in the her fingers anyway. She keeps busy but it is lonely when most of her friends and siblings have already gone. She watches sport on TV between frequent cat naps. It takes her a long time to do things as she needs to sit down often. She is also worried about falling and so she doesn't garden anymore. She is generally happy but I don't think she is frightened of dying. She sees it as a natural part of life and accepts that her body is wearing out. I know she didn't expect to live this long at all.
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It would appear wife has picked up another cold/flu. Gets fever, shakes and dizziness. Is that normal for cold/flu? I don't remember getting those symptoms with any of my cold/flus.
Blood test, urine tests and ultrasound clear last week.
Generally 37.6° but was 38.9° the other day.These are in industry parlance " non specific symptoms". May mean a not or not a lot.
Do you have a thermometer. Fevers shakes tend to go together and usually related to fever.
You can imagine my panic therefore when a DVT was found in my jugular veinHad a minor panic today. Physio was concerned over appearance of lump, tenderness and warmth at the back of my knee given I'm not long back from overseas. Luckily my doctor was working and within a couple of hours was able to rule out DVT.