We  did get to BKK ...eventually.....However, had Jetstar departed as  scheduled, we would have made it to the hospital in Bangkok to say  goodbye to the father in law before he passed away.. unfortunately we  got there too late.
As it happened, Jetstar was the next flight  available when we got the call to come...had we known earlier we would  have travelled with Thai Airways...  
Sure $hit happens, but my loyalty will now be shifting to other  airlines... Luckily I jagged an EY Gold match in August so that will  help to ease some of the pain..