Re: Deceased Qantas Plat member points.... Here's what happened, one year on.
Once again, I am sorry for your loss and hope that you are coming to terms with the changes in your life.
I suspect that the issue that concerns you the most is that Qantas cancelled the bookings, and then the account without the opportunity for you to "do something" with those points. I can understand qantas cancelling the booking, as that booking (I believe) wasn't made by your husband, but by his employer. Therefore the employer does have the right to cancel that booking. In hindsight, Qantas then should have contacted you for confirmation of his death. I suspect though, that the outcome would have been the same according to their terms and conditions. So while the outcome was the same, it was the process of cancellation (without the Executor or next of kin's confirmation") that was at issue.
However, as I said, my MIL's superannuation pension was cancelled immediately without our contact once that organisation read the death notice in the paper. It is obviously someone's job in that organisation specifically to do that.