Spot on. Thanks for calling this out.
There is not one example in this thread of someone opposing the rights of the pro-mask people from being able to continue their choice to mask up. In fact many posters have been very explicit in saying that they support their ability to mask up if they wish.
It's always the other way - the mask enthusiasts wishing to impose their position on others.
And this is where the core conflict can arise.
Remember the "pro-mask people" as you put it are probably better described as either people with an interest in their own health(though masks don't help nearly as much as a protective device for the wearer) or to be considerate of the community around them to potentially prevent any infection spread-if they have something (be it flu, covid or whatever).
the conflict arises where perhaps some feel while their right to mask up if they like is not the issue, but their risk is increased by those that choose not to. Now, in settings where it is optional.. well that's an issue of choice of all sides, and I personally do not feel it would be appropriate to suggest to others to mask up for others' protection (as noted above because someone with no symptoms may indeed be healthy, and even those with symptoms may just have a common cold and not covid). The flip side is those who feel that perhaps if someone is around them, in a place like a crowded PT setting or aircraft, and are showing symptoms that they should mask up for others (and this is essentially the reason for such rules where and when they exist). Wearing masks have never really been about protecting the wearer, but as a way to limit (to some degree) the spread to others.
And that's essentially where the problems begin based on one's point of view I guess.
The counter to suggest "well just don't be in that setting if it worries you" is mostly fair, but I do feel that sometimes folks don't really have a choice - such as catching PT to their work and while I agree air travel (the focus of this thread) is in the majority a voluntary choice for most of us - what of people sent on work trips? what of a need to travel for a sudden family emergency or death? so on and so forth.
While I really do not personally like the term "mask enthusiast" or "pro mask" because they are, to me, quite judgemental in nature, I do not agree in an optional setting that those who have reasons to wear a mask (which is none of my business) should put that on others, but try and control the things they can control when in a high risk(to them) setting.
I definitely see both "sides" of this debate.
imo