acampbel said:
So hypothetically, AC, how does that exchange make you feel?
How other pax feel on the plane is something for QANTAS to worry about - not for me to worry about.
Likewise, if someone else is getting some benefit I'm not entitled to (whether that be checkin privileges, lounge access or upgrade benefits), then my personal feelings of "missing out" are QANTAS' problem, not the problem of the person getting the benefits. If my feelings of "missing out" are affecting my perception of QANTAS and thus the custom I throw their way - that's QANTAS' problem.
Now, personally, I haven't been too fussed whether someone comes and says "Hi" or not. If the CSM does come and say "Hi", I'm not going to go and "rub someone else's nose in it". Instead I reply, engage in some chit chat and take the proferred newspaper (if I haven't already read it). No where do I try to make myself feel superior, or make others around me feel inferior. And if others around me do feel inferior, then they should make a comment to an attendant, and ask for similar treatment. They shouldn't be asking me to tell the CSM to "go away" or something.
Lastly, if QANTAS wishes to *advertise* a benefit and commit to delivering it, then I think people are entirely within their rights to complain (or comment) when that the benefit is not being delivered. Others might think it petty, but you know what they say about opinions: they're like a*holes - everyone has one...
What might be petty to you, isn't petty for someone else.