If you're talking J, sure I'm 100% with you. Qantas F though I've always thoroughly enjoyed and find the service attitude and crews generally often better than in the oh so amazing Middle Eastern/ Asian carriers. Wines also tend to be pretty good but I agree that the food is below par and I miss proper Caviar service.
But again- I could hardly ever fault the crews and service on Qantas F- as a matter of fact, twice did I have the pleasure to change from an EK F service to a QF F service straight after and in both cases, I've found the crew on Qantas way more attentive and "human" as opposed to the more robotic service I had encountered on EK (yes, even in First). I delighted the Qantas crew both times by telling them so and they seemed very surprised so I seem to be a rare case (or just had luck/ bad luck with some of my flights).