JohnK
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Re: BNE-SYD-LAX-BNE VA Y US$266 on Orbitz [gone]
And being attacked and criticised in a place outside of AFF where I cannot defend myself is even lower than what is happening on AFF.
Human beings know better but you know what some of these hum.... ah forget it.... you know what I was going to say but it's just not worth it.
Thanks to some lovely suggestions in this thread. The rest of it is just waffle.
Oh and to those who have sent me sms and PM's discussing the situation you are truly friends. Thank you.
What are you on about? I am confused. I am wrong in this situation (even though I am not wrong) so it is Ok for others to abuse me and criticise me because I am wrong. Sorry but that makes no sense.Well in a war or a fight, if someone is down, the art of war tells you to press the advantage, not to let them get up again. Same goes for boxing (until the ref tells you to back off).
I was brought up from childhood with the mentality that those who are wrong deserve no right to tell others to refrain from telling them that they are wrong, no matter what shape or form that criticism, accusation or abuse takes. The idea, I believe, was meant to be that reinforcing to someone that they are wrong will shame or reshape their behaviour enough that they will strive much harder not to be wrong again, because they do not want to relive that shame (criticism, accusations, abuse) through being wrong.
And being attacked and criticised in a place outside of AFF where I cannot defend myself is even lower than what is happening on AFF.
Human beings know better but you know what some of these hum.... ah forget it.... you know what I was going to say but it's just not worth it.
Thanks to some lovely suggestions in this thread. The rest of it is just waffle.
Oh and to those who have sent me sms and PM's discussing the situation you are truly friends. Thank you.