Enough of he said she said you said I think. These are the terms and conditions
So, fair enough, OP by definition is a non-active member. So under a strict reading of the T&C, QF was very much in their rights to expire the points.
But, under the same reading, a new account was setup to receive the points, they would equally have expired the month they landed into the account (with the caveat of 60 day notice). I guess the relevant question to consider is:
1. What was the intention of this rule? Obviously it is to make people engaged with the program. But for someone who was previously disengaged with the program and wanted to re-engage, should we be penalising them for this?
2. And is it reasonable that a point that has previously been made non-Active, be in this status "ad-infinitum"? Or should they make it like a new account (it could be possible that QF will confiscate family transfers into a brand new account).
3. Is it reasonable that QF would allow the transfer of points into a non-Active account in the first instance?
IMHO, whether the OP was given 1000 warnings is irrelevant to the analysis at hand...
9.2.2 All Points held in a Qantas Frequent Flyer account of a non-Active Member will expire at midnight Sydney, Australia time at the end of the 18th consecutive month for which the Member has not earned Points or Status Credits or redeemed Points (excluding any transfer of Points to or from an Eligible Family Member). For this purpose, Points earned in relation to Eligible Flights are deemed to be earned on the date the Eligible Flight was taken. Within 60 days of the Points expiration date, Qantas will notify Members of the number of Points that are about to expire and the expiration date as follows:
'Active Member' at a point in time, means a Member who has earned or redeemed Points or Status Credits (excluding any transfer of Points to or from an Eligible Family Member) on their Membership account within the previous consecutive 18 whole month period from that point in time;