Can I just go back to the suggestion of staff "lying" to customers?
While I am not an apologist for QF nor condone what's happened in the specific case (and acknowledge the poster has moved on) I want to just state a view on this. Nobody knows for sure if there was a deliberate lie per se, or series of them, or it was more an issue of privacy/saving face/trying best to deal with an awkward situation. Again not agreeing with the actions, but for example, your onboard crew were not responsible for last minute seat swaps yet have to deal with a (legitimate) request from the moved passenger. I wonder if saying a "higher status pax" was indeed not so much a lie but a general way of giving the truth as best they can. I mean, SST then claimed it was (unknown to us) staff, a high up it is presumed... one presumes on company business.. in that extent they *were* "higher status" it seems to me. Now one can argue one's definition of "higher status" and if the P1 should have been moved at all (I do not think they should have) but I'm talking about what is the onboard staff to do? they're in a lose/lose situation really in a situation not of their making. I'd hate to have been that CSM tbh.
I think there are lies, and there are, if you will, "white lies" or explanations given to best deal with a situation. For example, I would consider being told a seat change had occured for a mechanical issue with the seat only to see someone else in that seat onboard a lie and that's very easy to verify as such.
It could well be, per my reading of the situation as posted (of course I wasn't involved or there) that various versions of the truth were provided.
There's also the situation where sometimes the full information is not available to everyone at the time of inquiry - heavens we've read enough examples of this in the last week alone.
just my 2 cents in the interest of, if not fairness, then playing devil's advocate.
I think your points are very valid. sometimes 'white lies' are told to tell people what they want to hear. or to salvage a bad situation or even, as you suggested, staff may not be fully aware of background circumstances. To be honest this is part of the reason I don't want to divulge the details of the 'staff' who got that seat as I don't want anyone to be reprimanded (incl SST member who gave me the details which perhaps they shouln't have) and also in recognition that they tried to do their best in the situation.
Frankly, at the end of the day, all i care for is good and consistent service. I am fully aware that whenever and whereever there are real people invovled there wil be a degree of variations in service delivery as we are all human beings who are dealing with human beings. The challenge for QF (an any business in service industry for that matter) is to be able to deliver a consistent product offering through a vast workforce.
I am aware of the other end of the spectrum, when customers have unreasonable (again this is subjective) expectations just because they have achieved a tiered status.