I am guessing they have sold something they didn't have, sent you a very standard - the courier broke it - email, and then have been pretty useless in the all-important follow up correspondence. And in doing so, not taking into account you are probably one of their biggest private customers. I am hazarding a guess - but at $10k, you are probably one of their top ten customers of 2015.
It just goes to show that they have got too big, too quick, and have employed young, inexperienced people to handle these important issues. Such a shame. Especially when they are trying to "I quote" : we live by our credo to step up, care more, keep it real, do some good and have fun.
If they were going to keep it real - they wouldn't send out a (most likely) fictitious excuse. If they cared -they would check who they were responding to. If they were going to step up - they would do what WineMarket did when they stuffed up : go out of their way to source a replacement batch to make good on their promise, even if it was correcting a third party mistake.
The Fo are losing touch with who they are and what they stand for. Or, are we, the older Fo customers, not keeping pace with the - don't give a damn, big faceless, tech-dominant, pretty average corporate machine - it's turning into. Am I being too harsh? Or are others noticing a decline in wine offerings and the service?