3 month dinner catch up with a group. Before the approx month everyone is asked their preferred or unavailable date. This time it was Feb or April. March is chaos in SA so ignored. There was one date we didn’t want to go. But everyone else was fine so we lucked out. We changed arrangements. It involves overseas travel and last minute chores etc. So we expected we should go. So today we got the message about location. And almost immediately afterwards two people backed out because of a 70th party



. They were the key reason why our preferred date wasn’t ok in the first place as they couldn’t go then, and now, they still can’t go.
Right now not sure of our plans. It’s really expensive too. When our least wanted date was selected I said to the host please pencil us in but we might be a last minute drop out. Decisions decisions.