Don't beat yourself up, my better half was approved and relatively speaking, except for the age, her situation was only half as good as yours. Also you're not missing much, this mob is very painful to deal with, online and mobile experience is 5 years behind - on 11th month our card is destined for the shredder.So my family & I were starting to think that maybe it’s because I’m a mid aged female, can find no other reason