Re domestic.. I've found slightly more verbal recognition over the past year (I don't really care either way but I note it) but I have noticed there has been an effort by some to ensure full choice of meal options, even if in row 3 of a 737 (eg once was explicitly told "I made sure to keep one of everything") and usually on the widebodies where CSM's tend to visit pax in J they will make note in the greeting (I think this suggests the manifest issue has been resolved
).
I certainly don't recall the last time I've not been able to get my first option on a dom or international flight
I'm not sure what other services could be offered tbh.. specially on domestic there's only so much one can do.
I will agree that the days of being comp'd the odd bottle of wine seem to have gone for a few years now (I bet this is more about what's boarded).. for example years back if I remarked I really liked a certain wine being served if they had a spare rarely it would be presented (a really nice touch IMHO) but have not seen that for a long time (but then again if offered a Shaw & Smith I'm not sure how I'd feel
). I don't expect stuff like that mind you but I can't think of another way the crew could explicitly offer something special
(I take mostly J flights which probably impacts since I can't really comment on what P1s get in Y.. I certainly recall the last Y flight I took a jam packed MEL-SYD 73H and there was no room for anything but I didn't really care)