Yep kinda same experience for me also - kinda think the romantic dining notion might be for lovers rather than married couples - not that we don't love dining together - and probably presumptive of me to speak in such terms - how do others feel?
We (other half and I) dined together in TG F (not quite suites) before we were married.
i don't think with mind so much if we just sat in our own suites now.