No one would ever accuse us of not arguing in front of the children, or hiding of the inevitable differences between a couple that have to be accommodated for the relationship to last. The girls make some snide remarks about us being "different", but I don't think they have gone into relationships without knowing that they are damn hard work at times.
But this time next week is 41 years married, and last week was 46 years since we started going out. And for all the differences over the years, we enjoy all the time we can spend together, especially travelling the world now that we have the capacity, enhanced of course with the knowledge from other AFFers. Before joining this site we had never travelled in J, and since joining we have only once not travelled in J. Now there is something that enhances a relationship.