Reminds me of my experience in Kochi (Japan) at wedding of my friend (groom) to his Japanese wife in 1992.
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First up was the traditional Shinto wedding part, kimonos, temple, bowing, tea ceremony and an experience I won't ever forget (probably because I was sober at the time).
Then the western party of the wedding at the Kochi Holiday Inn ballroom, bride and groom announced and walked through the smoke filled stage - they had both changed (she had changed into western wedding dress and he was in tuxedo with Australian flag bow ties like the rest of us).
Our table was one Australian girl (who was the translator for the table and friend to bride, whom we had met back in Brisbane when doing all the organising for the trip) and then us 9 Aussie males (we thought it was a great idea to combine a holiday in Japan and the wedding). Middle of the table was a barrel of expensive Sake. Loss of face not to try
and manners to finish
. Ceremonial breaking of the top of the barrel, then we gave it our best shot - certainly was better when they warmed it up
. Every Japanese girl (and there were plenty of stunners) coming up to our table and we were speaking in our bad limited Japanese, they were just giggling. We learnt all about "sutto" (スット, すっと) [
@Katie ] and being "beron beron" (very drunk) [ベロンベロン, べろんべろん]
We lost our faces that night (couldn't feel them that is
) and well, I came back to Australia with an Australian girlfriend (who then became wife number 1). Still want to try and forget the next day though
. Not been able to look sideways at sake since....